so here’s the thing. I watched 500 days of summer. and all I could think was ‘I will not cry I will not cry.’ and I didn’t. 

It was weird, but this movie was just what i needed. I didn’t cry because of their ‘failed’ relationship because to me, it wasn’t. Summer learned at the end what love was, and Tom learned that life isnt a fairly tale, just full of events that mean something.

He was able to move on, she found love. so no, as was said in the movie. this was not a love story. it was a story about life, and learning to continue.